Most of your day is spent walking those same familiar halls, sitting in your comfortable chair, eating lunch in the same break room, and using you favorite stall in the bathroom; most of your day is spent at WORK!
And the people you work with get to know the "abbreviated" version of you. Most of them have not spent any real time with you outside of work, but they know all of your family members, how your last relationship treated you, where you are vacationing this year, and all of your favorite restaurants. And the mere fact that they can articulate any of these special things to you; unconventionally you transcribe that to mean that you have made a connection. Is it chemistry that you share? Of course NOT, but the fact you work with them daily; there is no doubt they will learn a lot about you. It is inevitable! You once told your girlfriends that he was just some guy from work and less than 3 months later you decided to become more serious.
In your attempt to secure a lasting relationship, don't be fooled by the FACTS people know about you on your job. It is the things about you they don't know that you should wonder if they could handle.
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