Just Me and You

One of my old professors in college used to say, "You have to do what works for you". And while that transpires into the lives of those committed students and beyond, it has to resolve in the dreams of those waiting on that "right" relationship or those seeking to enhance their current one. Many of us subconsciously judge the success or failure of someone else's relationship by looking through the lenses of what you see on the outside. We haven't spent nearly the same amount of time with that couple as they've spent with each other, but we are quick to judge. Wondering why some continue to stay instead of moving on or not understanding why some would keep forgiving instead of calling it quits. My hope is to equip everyone I come in contact with the hope to stay if that is where your heart is. Now if that relationship is not bringing out the best in you, it may be time to move on, but if it's experiencing the normal wear and tear every relationship will experience, HOPE is sometimes all you need. Let me remind you, do what works for you. Not what works for your mom, brother, godparents, or even your best friend; but the very essence that brings a smile to your face when you're standing in a room all by yourself.