Can We Talk

Often times our routine lifestyles hinder us from experiencing consistent excitement in our relationships. Instead of having open communication about what it is "missing" or even what we desire; we have enlisted in the belief that our significant others can read our minds, thoughts, and our aggravated body language.

Try talking about everything. I know we have been taught not to share everything at once in case we scare off a good thing. But I am confident in suggesting that if you don't share everything you run the risk of someone attending to only the needs you show them and the desires you speak about. I would rather lose someone in my life because what I share is too much for them to handle; rather than keep someone in my life and constantly walk on egg shells out of fear of them finding out the dark, secret side of me.

The excitement you seek is in the conversation you have yet to have. Talk about what turns you on, what you expect, if anything, places you would like to travel, things you would like to accomplish, and dreams yet to be fulfilled. When you do, you have someone who is in your circle to encourage and excite every inch of you!