One fact about men is - we love a woman who can take the initiative. From moments of intimacy to last minute decision making; a woman who can take the initiative is very attractive. For years, it was unheard of for a woman to pick up the restaurant bill, buy gifts for her man when it wasn't Christmas or his birthday, and plan a date (even picking him up). And now we are beginning to see more and more of that. Some women are stuck in the traditional way of thinking and feel as if men are the ones who are to continue to do all of these things, but we as a people evolve. And its nothing wrong with the change that comes with that. It's more important to recognize what your partner wants and is comfortable with.
Some men still love to pay for every bill and work while the woman stays at home (rare these days), but if that is what he wants, if she is with him, than she doesn't mind him doing that. But if you are a man who would like to "share" some of those responsibilities - don't hesitate to share that with the one that you are with. If not, you will find yourself frustrated and she wouldn't even know why. As helpful as it would be, we can not read each other's minds. We are two different creatures and think on two separate wavelengths. Save the charades for game night and share with your partner what you would like on date night!
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