Love Lost

I was recently asked by a few special people in my life, if going back to an old love is wrong or outdated. Boldly speaking, I don't see it as a bad thing or something you shouldn't consider. There is a reason you were initially attracted to that person equally as there is a stronger reason why you are no longer with that person. Although, the weight of letting them go tipped the scale over; there is undoubtedly an amount of love you still have for that person.

The # 1 thing you need to consider, reconsider, and consider again is, can you live with the fact that if you go back that the person is still the same? Honestly, the reason you parted was because there was an imbalance and there was not a compromise the two of you could agree on. And because of that, what you are saying if you go back is - you are willing to compromise NOW. You are willing to let go of the area you so wish he/she would change. The love you have for them has gotten to the place it has overshadowed that flaw. And if you are at the place, I applaud you and embrace you going back and reigniting that love again. If you are not at that place, don't do yourself or them a disservice by returning. The road is wide, plenty of opportunity for your heart to breathe again and one day love again.