You can make anything work, but why make something work when you can have someone you don't have to work so hard for. They say anything worth having is worth working for. That is true. But placing our efforts of "work" in a place where we have settled is different from placing our efforts of "work" in a place where we have surrendered our hearts.
The problem with submitting our hearts is submission comes with a price. And that price is riskier than any of us really want to make. Women will go for what is safe and secure and not risk giving their heart to someone who may not feel the same about them. Many make this choice because it is easier to deal with a man who has given her his heart than it is for a woman to surrender her heart to a man who is still unsure of where he really wants to be. Women are not interested in men who fluctuate like rain in the month of April. They are not interested in men who "think" they know what they want. Today's woman is tired of being with a man who almost has it all together. I'm not referring to his shortcomings or frailties. Women for years have learned to deal with that side of us, but what many women are refusing to deal with more and more these days is a man who wants her as his lover some days and a woman who he can treat like one of the boys on others. Women are no longer being toyed with like a trophy that collects dust over top the mantle in the living room. I can hear all of your whispers now, "It is either me or it's not me." And I applaud you!
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