Emergency Exit

If you've ever flown anywhere, you would remember the monotone, rehearsed speech of the flight attendant ushering everyone to wear their seatbelt and be mindful of the emergency exits. The emergency exit is not supposed to be used unless there is an emergency. You wouldn't think of opening the emergency exit if everything on the flight is going well. But, in the error of life, if the plane was experiencing technical difficulties, the emergency exit is used as Plan B.

Many of us have not thought about a Plan B when it comes to relationships. Like the emergency exit, Plan B should not be used unless there is an emergency. Im not talking about a fight over who paid the last bill, a fight over where you want to spend this years vacation, or a fight over what school the kids should go to; but im talking about being in a relationship where you are the only one who is giving and the other person is merely just "milking" the relationship. They have no intention to give anything and have even professed they are not adding anything else to the relationship. Truth be told, this is why a lot of women stay in broken and dilapidated relationships. Not because they don't deserve better because God knows that you do, but you stay because you have no other option. You have not created a Plan B and now that it is an emergency; you are forced to stay in a dead end relationship.

You are worth more than a broken or one-sided relationship. Let me remind you what you desire in your heart, you can have. Your current condition is not your final destination. When the door shuts; make sure you know how to get to the back room and pry open the window! Your best days are ahead of you...